The Power of Simple Rituals

Part of the “Taking Root” Series by Donna Letier

Every day you wake up and have another chance to be who you want to be.

And yet, it’s rarely the big leaps that shape us — it’s the small rituals that quietly hold our lives together. The simple, steady things that bring us back to ourselves when the world feels hurried or loud.

Watering your patio gardens as the sun rises. A morning cup of coffee before the house wakes up. A moment of gratitude before opening your inbox. Misting the leaves of your garden and noticing new growth. Calling your mom.

What Are Rituals, Really?

At their core, rituals are intentional actions performed with meaning.
They’re different from habits because they’re done with awareness — a conscious choice to create rhythm and presence in our lives.

Harvard behavioral scientist Dr. Michael Norton, who studies the psychology of rituals, describes them as “tools for managing the emotional highs and lows of life — ways of creating control, meaning, and connection.”

In other words, rituals are small acts that turn ordinary moments into anchors of calm.

Rituals don’t ask for perfection — only presence. They remind us that consistency is its own kind of courage. In a season that celebrates productivity, simple rituals are how we remember to pause, breathe, and root ourselves in what matters.

When I water my plants in the morning, I’m reminded that growth takes time. It needs patience, nourishment, and light — the same things we need. That tiny act, repeated day after day, becomes a grounding rhythm — a soft declaration that I’m here, I’m growing, and I’m paying attention.

As Dr. Sue Stuart-Smith, author of The Well-Gardened Mind, writes, “Gardening reconnects us to the cycles of life — a rhythm that helps to steady our own.”

The simple act of tending a plant is both an outward gesture and an inward one — a practice of care, stillness, and trust.

Rituals are more than habits. They’re promises.
Small, sacred moments of alignment between who we are and who we’re becoming.

So light the candle. Pour the tea. Water the garden. Take the walk.
Do it not because it changes the world, but because it changes you.

“It’s not the things we do occasionally that define us — it’s the things we do consistently, with intention.”

The power of simple rituals is that they turn ordinary moments into anchors of meaning.
They help us stay rooted when everything around us feels like it’s rushing by.

Because sometimes growth doesn’t mean doing more — it means doing less, but doing it with care.

Until next time, I will be in my garden.

Donna